Saturday, July 27, 2013

No Me Dejes (Don't Leave Me)

I can't forget the sound of your voice.
I reached out my hand, i needed love.

No puedo olvidar el mar de tus ojos si en el fondo de ellos
Brilla mi dolor.


Cuanto tiempo debo esperar un rayo de sol?
How long will i have to walk to reach your love?

Don't wait for me and don't leave me alone.
I'll meet you at the right moment.

No me hables, no te busco.
Yo me pierdo entre tus besos
No lo puedo evitar ni tu ni yo lo podemos evitar


No me esperes, no me dejes,
Yo te encuentro en su momento.

Don't talk to me, i'm not looking for you,
I get lost between your kisses.

I can't help it, neither you nor me,
CAN'T HELP IT.



I love you so much!!!

Monday, May 20, 2013

Candice Glover....

Candice Rickelle Glover born November 22, 1989 also known as Candice Glover... She is from St. Helena Island, South Carolina, United States...

This awesome girl auditioned for American Idol (AI) 3 times... The first two times, she didn't even make it through Vegas round... Her determination made her audition for the 3rd time and each week she pass through each round and making her to enter the Live Show...

The first week (Top 20), she sang Ordinary People by John Legend and received vote from America to enter the Top 10 and also the Idol Tour... During the Top 10 round, she sang "I (Who Have Nothing) and received standing ovation from the judges and declaring her the most powerful voice on Idol EVER...

With this she continue going through each round of Idol and in the Top 6 round, the theme is Songs They Wish They've Written, she sang "Lovesong" by The Cure... This song she performed, the judges all agreed that this is the best song sang ever on any singing competition in the world...

In the end, she pass through each round and manage to go to the Grand Finale... Her first single is awesome and i'm loving it... It's called "I Am Beautiful"... Oh ya, btw she WON the whole thing and crowning her the WINNER of AI and the first black girl to win after season 6 Jordin Sparks...





ENJOY her first single and be touched...





Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Love To Me Is..............

Love For me is......

It’s when I shed tears for you and
Still pray for your happiness.

It’s when you ignores me and
Still I care for you


It’s when you start loving some one else and
Still I love you and honestly say
“I’m glad that you found happiness”

Love is how you treat others
But not how you admire others


Love is how you respect someone else
But not how you argue with them

Love is how you understand people
But not how you listen to them

Love is how you appreciate others
But not how you criticize others

Love is how you forgive someone
But not how you forget him/her


Above all; love is how you love
But not how you hurt...



Finally i wanna say, LOVE IS BEING ABLE TO RESPECT YOURSELF......

Monday, March 11, 2013

Stay Strong in Times of Trouble...

As much as we love smooth waters, an Arab proverb states that smooth water do not make skillful sailors. In this journey called life, the question is not, “Will storms arise?” Rather, the question is, “When will the next storm arise?” And even more important than that question is, “What type of person will I be when the next storm arises?” Advanced life skills are needed to navigate these sometimes treacherous waters.


Here are some ways to practice independence when adversity comes your way:-

- Take the time to acknowledge the pain of the adversity, but also take charge of it by distancing yourself from it. This is very different from denial, or repressing pain by pretending that it does not exist. Resilient people allow themselves to experience pain, but they share it with trusted friends, and they also do other things to distance themselves from the pain.

-Set boundaries. Only allow yourself certain times to think about or reflect on the adversity. If you are prone to worry, schedule 15 minutes of worry time. Then, when painful feelings or worry come up, tell yourself, “ I've got my worry time scheduled–I’ll think about it then.”

Problem solving questions:-
- What is great about this problem?
- What is not perfect yet?
- What am I willing to do to make it the way I want it?
- What am I willing no longer to do in order to make it the way I want it?
- How can I enjoy the process while I do what is necessary to make it the way I want it?

Creativity

Creativity is using the imagination in a way that, once again, helps you mobilize your resources and navigate tough situations in life. Creativity and humor are related resilience  One of the most helpful tools to tapping creativity during hard times is a workbook called The Artist’s Way Workbook, by Julia Cameron. It encourages the practice of freehand journalism every morning in order to tap into your inner resources. Other helpful forms of creativity may include drawing, listening to music, painting, walking in nature, and meditation. I have found that I am most creative internally when I am running out in open nature, all alone.


Humor

Humor is an offshoot of creativity. Learn not to take yourself or life too seriously! Learn to cultivate your sense of humor, because when you do, it will help you play in the midst of difficulty, shape your reality by offsetting pain, and help you laugh in the face of the absurdity of your pains and troubles. By no means do I mean that you should minimize or pretend that your troubles don’t exist. However, being able to find humor in every situation will help you cope more effectively. Learn to enjoy funny books or movies. Laugh often.

Morality and Values

This means that you have identified your core personal values, and that you are living and acting on the basis of an informed conscience. It means that you have developed a philosophy of living and a moral framework and principles for behaving and decision making. Ultimately, these values and principles will serve as roots that will give you nourishment when the storms of adversity pound against you. In the most responsible and developed stage of morality and values, we have an obligation to use our gifts and talents to serve others, even in the midst of suffering and pain. I cite some examples here: Mother Theresa, Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King, Jr. These are only a few examples of persons who tapped into morality and spirituality in the midst of adversity.


So whatever happen in life, whatever problem you're occurring, remember to always stay strong. Never let problem to take control of you're life but let you life take control of the problems. Face your UPs and DOWNs with courage and strength. Don't let anyone bring you down..... and one more thing, don't see yourself as a victim but see yourself as a soldier whose survived the battle of everyday life.



"There's a reason behind everything that will happen or has happened. The only thing we could do is to stay strong. To never lose hope and to have a little faith." -unknown source



Demi Lovato is one of my inspiration is staying strong. This song is dedicated to all of you guys to stay strong no matter what happen. This is "Skyscraper" by Demi Lovato




Dr. Ben Carson’s Only Childhood Advantage: His Mother’s Encouragement

As a boy, Ben Carson watched his father walk out on his family, closing the door on a life the 8-year-old would never know again. Through periods of heartbreak, fear and financial struggle, his mother, Sonya Carson, provided for Ben and his brother. A determined woman with only a third-grade education, she insisted her sons see their potential and that they never let circumstances get them down. She taught them that education would change their lives.

Ben took on the challenges, devoting himself to a life of learning and achievement, overcoming adversity on his path, to become a world-renowned neurosurgeon. Dr. Ben Carson never forgot his mother’s early lessons.
zAs the director of pediatric neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins Medical Institutions, Carson, 57, was awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom for his groundbreaking contributions to medicine and his efforts to help America’s youth fulfill their potential.

Even at 8, when his father left, Carson knew he wanted to be a doctor, he writes in his autobiography,Gifted Hands. When Sonya Carson moved her sons from their modest house in Detroit to live with her brother and his wife in Boston, she scrimped and sacrificed so they could return. When they did, they had to settle for Detroit’s downtown housing projects—but at least they were home.

Sonya Carson knew the world held more hope for her boys than the ghetto offered. She struggled to support the family without relying on government assistance.

Ben was lost, hopelessly behind in his schoolwork in a school that was competitive. The other kids picked on him and called him “dummy.” Ben lashed back with his fists. He resigned himself to thinking he was stupid.

With both boys’ grades suffering, Sonya took away the TV and replaced it with library cards. She required both sons to read two books a week and turn in book reports. The boys left the reports on the table for her before going to bed. In the morning, they found red check marks on their papers, signifying her approval.

The boys did not realize until they were adults that their mother couldn't read. Last summer, she beamed as President Bush bestowed the Medal of Freedom on her son and acknowledged her. “Even in the toughest times, she always encouraged her children’s dreams,” Bush said. “She never allowed them to see themselves as victims. She never, ever gave up.”

Carson gives his mother much of the credit for his success. “If my mother had not been such a positive influence in my life, and had not stressed education as much as she did, I would definitely not have made it into medicine,” he said. “I probably wouldn't have found my way to college at all.”

Reading changed Ben Carson’s life. Books became an escape for him. He enjoyed reading about animals and nature and found self-confidence in his new found knowledge. As a fifth grader, he could identify the rocks he found along the railroad tracks on his walk home from school. His brother, Curtis, who grew up to become an engineer, kidded Ben about the rocks. But Ben was not deterred.

Also in fifth grade, an eye test revealed Ben badly needed glasses. With his new love for knowledge and a shiny pair of glasses, his world was changing. As his grades improved, the name-calling stopped. Other kids began to respect him and even ask for help with their schoolwork. He knew he could achieve anything he set his mind to—and that knowledge helped him make his dreams come true. “As my mother would tell me,” he says, “ ‘Give your best, Ben Carson. Settle for nothing less than doing your best for yourself and others.’ ”

His hard work continued through high school and he won a scholarship to Yale, followed by medical school at the University of Michigan. At 33, Carson became the youngest physician to head a major division at Johns Hopkins.

Carson now concentrates on traumatic brain injuries, brain and spinal cord tumors, and neurological and congenital disorders. In 1987, he led a team of 69 medical professionals in achieving a first: successfully separating conjoined twins who were attached at the back of their heads.

He continues to revolutionize neurosurgery with advanced techniques such as hemispherical, removing half the brain to treat seizure disorders. The radical procedure is performed, usually on children, when all other treatment options have been exhausted. Since the 1980s, Carson has refined and developed new approaches to these delicate surgeries, increasing universal success rates.

The doctor believes that encouraging people to succeed in life is as important as the work he does in the operating room. “The neurosurgery provides a platform for me to help people recognize that the person who has the most influence on them and their success is themselves,” he says. “If I didn't do all that I do as a doctor, then nobody would want to hear what I have to say.”

He views education and knowledge as central to a successful life. “Acquiring knowledge makes you an incredibly valuable person,” Carson says. “And reading, because that exercises your mind, is like exercising your mind with weights.”
Throughout his early years, Carson relied on the kindness and guidance of mentors. One of his earliest was an elementary school science teacher who sparked his interest in research and studying organisms under a microscope. “From that point on, I always knew I wanted to be a doctor,” he says.

A mentor who influenced Carson greatly during his last two years at medical school was Dr. James Taren, a renowned neurosurgeon, who stressed that patients deserve a doctor’s full attention, that there is no “time off” when someone’s life hangs in the balance. “The person in the bed isn't just a patient, but a human being with a name and a life outside the hospital,” Carson says.

“There are definitely not enough mentors today,” he says. “That’s one of the reasons I try to encourage people to look at their sphere of influence and to seek out young people. If you mentor someone and get them going, and then they do that for someone else, it has a ripple effect. And I can’t overemphasize how much help we need mentoring young people today.”

In 1994, Carson and his wife, Candy, founded the Carson Scholars Fund, a nonprofit organization rewarding students in fourth through 11th grades who strive for academic excellence and demonstrate a strong commitment to their communities. “We want these scholars to think that they are world-beaters,” he says. “You take a fourth-, fifth- or sixth-grader and give them all the attention for academic achievement and humanitarian qualities and you have started something.”

The Carson Scholars Fund has awarded more than 3,400 college scholarships. Through annual golf tournaments, galas and other events, along with the help of a star-studded board of directors, the organization continues to raise money to expand the program. His dream is to have a Carson Scholar in every school in the country.

“Once you begin to understand and realize what you are capable of, the whole world changes,” he says. “When I was in the fifth grade and I thought I was a dummy, I was relatively depressed. That’s probably why I was angry all the time. But once I discovered through reading that I could control my own future, it was like someone had lifted a veil; I couldn't get enough knowledge at that point. Everything that was new was exciting to me, and I began to think about what I was going to do, how I was going to change the world.” He pauses and seems to reflect on his profound childhood transformation before finishing his thought. “I had the same brain, just a different attitude.”